Just before thanksgiving, my friend Giorgio invited me to his distant cousin's Hindu wedding (he thought it would be something a tourist might like to see haha). Leading up to it though, he kept complaining how long and boring it was going to be and did i just want to go to the reception. I went by his family's house before the wedding and they were all saying the same thing, but I wanted to see it. So the service was really only 2 hours (maybe 2.5), so I don't know what everyone was complaining about (they were making it seem like hours and hours). It was really a shame because throughout the service people were chatting and walking in and out...no one seemed really interested in what was going on. Lucky for me, they had an MC explaining everything that was going on, but he also kept emphasizing (to the point where it was like a demand) that the family has provided refreshments and that we should leave the service and eat them because the service is going to be awhile (again, it was only 2 hours long!). Between the service and the reception we picked up his aunt (who hadn't gone to the service). The reception was honestly just how I would imagine an Indian wedding reception...except they never pulled the chairs away to dance (Giorgio kept complaining about that and about how it was the worst reception he's ever been to...people can be harsh!). I still had a good time and ate some good food.

Giorgio and his cutest little first cousin when we left the ceremony to eat the refreshments.

the traditional dancer.

The tranny traditional dancer (i.e. and man dressed up as a woman)

I forget what they call these drummers but they only played to introduce the bride and groom when the left the temple and when they arrived at the reception and for this lil performance. The rest of the reception was just music on the loud speakers.

The bride and groom and their parents! (Yes they changed into more modern wedding attire for the reception)

Some gooooood Indian food at the reception...no meat...no plates...no utensils...but sooooo goood. Its Buss up shut roti (the crumbly bread) that you use to pick up the cassava and potatoes, mangos, and other concoctions.

After the bride moves to his left side, the family comes up and throws rice at the newlyweds (sound familiar?). This is the ceremony to pray that they are prosperous.

Inside the temple...at the end of the aisle

The bride walking down the aisle with the mother! This is after she did a little preperation ceremony without the groom. Then she left and the groom did his preperation ceremony. Then she came down the aisle and stood on the groom's left side and then a ceremony to move to his left side.